Just got back from my in-law's crib..Penat otak and penat kaki. 
Imagine la we started the day as early as 9.30 this morning.
Duhhh..we were partly anxious and blissful for today was supposed
to be my youngest brother-in-law's engagement day.
And his supposedly fiancée to be is a Muslim girl
so we were super excited for we gleefully thought that we get to
celebrate double occasions later on..like makan2 kui raya..
rendang, nasi...haha.
But sad to say, the engagement thing did not go well as planned..
the girl changed her mind and rejected the ring..
and we were all like..WTH...
Everybody fussed confusedly over the matter
..some complained that she should have told in the first place
if she had second thoughts.
I had been to many joyous engagement ceremonies before..
but none of them ended tragically like this one...
adakah patut...deiii
Imagine la we started the day as early as 9.30 this morning.
Duhhh..we were partly anxious and blissful for today was supposed
to be my youngest brother-in-law's engagement day.
And his supposedly fiancée to be is a Muslim girl
so we were super excited for we gleefully thought that we get to
celebrate double occasions later on..like makan2 kui raya..
rendang, nasi...haha.
But sad to say, the engagement thing did not go well as planned..
the girl changed her mind and rejected the ring..
and we were all like..WTH...
Everybody fussed confusedly over the matter
..some complained that she should have told in the first place
if she had second thoughts.
I had been to many joyous engagement ceremonies before..
but none of them ended tragically like this one...
adakah patut...deiii
Sian my brother-in-law. Humiliating, it really was.
He really cares deeply for this girl
and yet, the latter was...you know...
boleh2 dia cakap "Sorry, I love you but my feeling for you is 0 now.."..
hadoiiiii..come on la..she had been with my bro-in-law
for quite some time..2 years something..
then tiba2 things turn out crazy mcm ni...
Then selidik punya selidik...
rupa2nya she has other love interest and that man
has actually promised to propose to her very soon..
My jaw dropped open...really wide open upon hearing this.
My husband was unconsciously wrenching my arm tightly..
I knew he was completely at his utmost madness.
Punyalah sakit my arm kena picit..deiiiii
He really cares deeply for this girl
and yet, the latter was...you know...
boleh2 dia cakap "Sorry, I love you but my feeling for you is 0 now.."..
hadoiiiii..come on la..she had been with my bro-in-law
for quite some time..2 years something..
then tiba2 things turn out crazy mcm ni...
Then selidik punya selidik...
rupa2nya she has other love interest and that man
has actually promised to propose to her very soon..
My jaw dropped open...really wide open upon hearing this.
My husband was unconsciously wrenching my arm tightly..
I knew he was completely at his utmost madness.
Punyalah sakit my arm kena picit..deiiiii
Well...what can we say. After all, one can never pretend to love
if she or he never does... (after 2 years..? hmm..)
memang tidak ada jodoh maybe..It was indeed a whole tearful,
extremely sad farewell for my brother-in-law for he had to let go of her unwillingly.
I wanted so much to string my words together and utter my discontentment
but I just couldn't find the right ones to soothe my brother-in-law at that moment.
I was stunned and numb.
I was not prepared for such humiliation.
Each of us was not mentally ready.
I caught glimpses of teary eyes here and there but I could not tell who.
I was tearful too and hurting inside.
if she or he never does... (after 2 years..? hmm..)
memang tidak ada jodoh maybe..It was indeed a whole tearful,
extremely sad farewell for my brother-in-law for he had to let go of her unwillingly.
I wanted so much to string my words together and utter my discontentment
but I just couldn't find the right ones to soothe my brother-in-law at that moment.
I was stunned and numb.
I was not prepared for such humiliation.
Each of us was not mentally ready.
I caught glimpses of teary eyes here and there but I could not tell who.
I was tearful too and hurting inside.
Well..memang betul la kali tu cinta buta.
Or rather..the eyes got blurred by something else.. RM, possibly.?
Or rather..the eyes got blurred by something else.. RM, possibly.?
I just hope she had made a right choice.
